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Writer's pictureDebra Griffith

The Grass is Greener: Finding the Right Patch For You.






 

The Grass is Greener: Finding the Right Patch for You


Growing up, I had a funny relationship with grass. As a child, I was incredibly allergic to it—sneezing fits, red eyes, the whole shebang. But over time, I grew out of it and was eventually able to run, play, and roll around in it without a second thought. This evolution is a bit like how we approach opportunities in life. Initially, we might leap into new situations, drawn by their inviting appearance, only to discover that what we really need isn’t quite what we thought.


Understanding Your Grass


Types and Shades of Grass: Just like there are countless varieties of grass, there are many facets to consider in relationships, jobs, or organizations. At the start, we might be drawn to what seems shiny and impressive—a higher salary or a more prestigious title. Over time, though, we learn that a supportive team or a healthy work-life balance might be what truly matters.


Personal Needs and Growth: As we evolve, so do our needs. A job that once felt like the perfect fit might no longer align with our current values. A friendship that seemed crucial might fade as we grow into new phases of our lives. Regular self-reflection is key to understanding these shifts and identifying what we need to thrive.


Learning Through Experience: Sometimes, it’s through jumping into various patches of grass that we gain clarity. Each new experience teaches us something about ourselves and what we truly value. Maybe you’ll find you prefer a certain shade of green or a different texture—each leap helps you get closer to what’s right for you.


Reflecting on Allergies: I’ve come to view my childhood allergy to grass as a metaphor for the things that, while initially appealing, might not be the best fit for us. Just because something looks good from afar doesn’t mean it’s the right choice for us personally. Recognizing these “allergies” helps us avoid the discomfort of forcing ourselves into situations that aren’t meant for us.


Finding the Right Patch of Grass


Self-Reflection: Take the time to explore what you truly need and want. Look back on past experiences to pinpoint what has brought you joy and fulfillment, versus what has caused stress or dissatisfaction.


Research and Patience: Before making a leap, gather as much information as you can. Talk to others, research your options, and understand the environment you’re considering. Patience in this process is crucial.


Trial and Error: Don’t shy away from trying new things, but also be prepared to reassess and make changes if necessary. It’s okay to step back and adjust your path as needed.


Embrace Change: Your preferences and needs will evolve over time, and that’s completely normal. What works for you now might not fit in the future, and that’s a natural part of growth.


Trust Your Journey: Each experience, whether positive or negative, is a step towards finding the right patch of grass for you. Trust that your journey is guiding you to where you need to be, even if the path isn’t always clear.


In the end, the grass isn’t always greener on the other side; it’s greener where you water it. By understanding your unique needs and being open to adaptation, you can find the patch of grass that allows you to truly thrive.


So take a moment to reflect. What kind of grass do you need to flourish? How can you cultivate an environment that supports your growth? Answering these questions will help guide you to the perfect patch—one that isn’t just green, but perfectly suited to you.


Author, Dr. Debra Y Griffith, CEO, Do Better Executive Coaching

 



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